One of the more well-known Christian answers to the problem of evil is found
in
the free will argument, which hinges on the fact that love can only be given
by creatures who can freely choose to love or rebel against God. However, such a
response raises some other questions, such as how could we then have free will
in heaven and yet not sin? While I've
answered that
already, another problem people ask is about the ramifications of judged
evil. Heaven is supposed to be a place of complete joy, with no more "mourning,
nor crying, nor pain anymore" (Rev. 21:4). But, if among those judged are those
people we care about, how can this be? How can one have eternal joy knowing a
friend or family member is in hell?
Some have tried to answer the problem by
holding that we would forget those people who are lost. The website Got
Questions.org quotes Isaiah 65:17 which reads, "For behold, I create new heavens
and a new earth, and the former things shall not be remembered" then concludes
that "There is no reason why we could not possess many memories from our earthly
lives. The memories that will be cleansed are the ones that involve sin, pain,
and sadness."
1 This view seems to say that anything that
may cause us any type of regret or despondence will be wiped from our minds.
But, that strikes me as odd. If God is so careful to give us free will and not
to impose His will upon us then why would He erase significant portions of our
lives from our memories? Would God really erase the memory of a particularly
traumatic event, even though it may have helped shape us to be God-fearing?
John Piper, in looking at the same verse, doesn't take quite that stark a view.
He writes, "What we will forget and what we will remember is not a simple class
of bad and good. Rather we will forget and remember things in accord with what
will maximize our enjoyment of God. If remembering something enhances our
worship, we will remember it. If it would hinder our worship we will forget it."
2
Piper notes the difficulty one has with the cross itself. Certainly, the cross
is the most glorious thing since it reconciles us with God, yet it is also the
worst atrocity in history as the sinless Son of God was tortured and killed by
sinful men.
God is the one Doing the Forgetting
I don't agree with either answer above. As I study the scriptures, I don't
believe God will tamper with our memories at all. The concept of "forgetting" in
the Bible doesn't mean unable to recall, but simply that the events are too
insignificant to pay attention to. We see this in Hebrews 10:17 where the Holy
Spirit states "I will remember their sins and their lawless deeds no more." God
obviously cannot be omniscient and forget anything. So the phrase about
remembering no more means that he will never bring it up again as the penalty
has been paid in full. Likewise, the verse prior to Isaiah 65:17 uses the same
idiom when Isaiah writes, "Because the former troubles are forgotten and are
hidden from my eyes." Note who is doing the forgetting here – it isn't the
people of the new heavens and the new earth, it's God Himself! God is doing the
talking; therefore the personal pronoun "my" is referring to the speaker. Then,
in the very next verse, God reinforces the idea by saying "the former things
shall not be remembered." So, Isaiah 65:17 really doesn't speak about wiping out
any part of the believer's memories at all.
In the New Heavens, We Will See Clearly
So, how can we have our memories of our painful struggles while on earth and
yet be promised no more pain in heaven? I believe this is where the ability to
see God's plan clearly becomes key. Paul tells us that "For now we see in a
mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know
fully, even as I have been fully known" (1 Cor 13:12). In other words, we will
have a much fuller understanding of God's plan once we're in heaven. If God
causes all things to work together for the good, as Romans 8:28 says, then God
has made sure that any pain or sorrow we experienced was ultimately in His plan
for our benefit. Paul also tells us that "the sufferings of this present time
are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us" (Rom.
8:18). Once we are in heaven, the trials and tribulations we place so much
emphasis on will seem to us as a bad dream did one day later. Dreams feel so
real when we're dreaming, but once we wake up, we realize how silly and ethereal
they really are.
In another example, John writes of the martyrs who are in
heaven in Revelation 6:9-10. He records, "I saw under the altar the souls of
those who had been slain for the word of God and for the witness they had borne.
They cried out with a loud voice, ‘O Sovereign Lord, holy and true, how long
before you will judge and avenge our blood on those who dwell on the earth?'" It
sure seems like the martyrs remember what happened to them! But note what they
are asking. They are not calling to wipe away the memories of their martyrdom;
they seek God's justice. They see the inherent sin of humanity (for the actual
people who had martyred them are likewise dead by now) and they cry out for God
to restore righteousness and out His creation back in order.
That is the
key, I believe, to how one can be filled with joy in heaven even if ones friends
or family are condemned to the judgment of hell. I think once glorified, we will
see sin for what it is. Just as I answered in my article "
How
Can We Be Free in Heaven and Not Sin?", sin will appear so repugnant to us,
that we will cry out for God to punish it. Our relationship will change because
our understanding will change. We will see the righteousness of God in judging
sin and we will recognize it as the holy act it is.
The idea of God wiping
out any bad memories really doesn't make sense. After all, the Bible records all
kinds of evil acts; does that mean God's Word won't be with us in the new
heavens and the new earth? We know that Jesus will carry the marks of
crucifixion with Him forever (Rev. 5:6) as well. Instead, it makes much more
sense that our understanding of holiness will increase and our tolerance for sin
will decrease to such a degree that we would simply see things a lot more like
the way God sees them now. I know I cannot love anyone more than he does
and knowing that any punishment is in the hand of a holy and righteous God, I
can take joy in that.
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