Yesterday, I was labeled a hypocrite from a beloved family member. This wasn't because I had made a promise to him and then reneged. It wasn't because I said he should act a certain way and then I acted another. The reason for my being labeled a hypocrite was because I am a Christian apologist, which means I defend a particularly worldview. However, the charge of hypocrisy isn't limited to apologists only, but in today's culture, it can be levied against any Christian trying to honestly live out one's faith.
All Christians are commanded to be "prepared to make a defense to anyone who
asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you" (1 Peter 3:15) as well as to
"test everything; hold fast what is good" (1 Thess. 5:21). In order to help
Christians accomplish this aspect of their walk in Christ, I try to highlight
issues and events in our culture that have significant moral or theological
impact. While I do hold convictions on political matters, I really don't
make a point of posting them unless they somehow has theological or moral
stakes, such as the abortion issue. There is a lot of noise out there today. One
of my goals in ministry is to inject clarity in these discussions and hopefully
help other Christians be better equipped when they discuss them as well.
But
as the issues become more contentious and as the modern culture moves farther
and farther away from its Christian underpinnings, my commentary has become more
critical, and this is where the problem comes in. I had recently posted about the
reaction of the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation to the forced exit
of Brendan Eich from Mozilla, who in 2008 supported California's Prop. 8. GLAAD
issued as statement, stating "Mozilla's strong statement in favor of equality today reflects where
corporate America is: inclusive, safe, and welcoming to all." My response was
that it is neither inclusive, safe, nor welcoming to anyone holding a viewpoint
that differs from GLAAD's. For that I'm charged with not being
loving and not being Christ-like. In part, I was told "Your original comment
about GLAAD not being inclusive, safe, and welcoming to those who disagree--- As
if Christians don't do that all the time---so why even make this comment? It's
hypocritical. If you are going to point out others' flaws, why not do it to
Christians instead?" This was followed by "My point is that it's time to maybe
take a break from pointing fingers. Lenny, as a church leader, does not reflect
what the church is supposed to look like (like Jesus) when he makes those kind
of comments, publicly. It fosters an us-vs-them attitude."
So, as I understand it, I am a
hypocrite because 1)I criticize those outside the church instead of keeping my
criticism directed toward Christians and 2)by offering criticisms at all I am
somehow not reflecting Jesus. Both charges require a response.
Shouldn't
Christians Clean Up Their Own Act First?
As I
explained above, part of my job as a teacher and minister is to filter the
milieu of daily events and help others try to make sense of them from a
Christian perspective. Perhaps I don't do that well, but I do try through these
blog posts,
writing,
podcasts,
YouTube and social media.
Because our society is now post-Christian, it shouldn't come as a surprise that
Christians are increasingly faced with positions contrary to their beliefs.
Jesus warned of such contrary positions when He would warn his disciples to "beware the leaven of the
Pharisees and Sadducees" (
Matt
16:6) or "When you pray, you must not be like the hypocrites. For they love
to stand and pray in the synagogues…" (
Matt
6:5). Implicit in His instruction is a criticism of those
who are outside the faith. Jesus is pointing out others' flaws while cautioning His
followers not to do the same.
This doesn't mean that I shy away from
criticizing those in the church, as the objection I'm answering here is lobbied
more by Christians than non-Christians. But to assume that Christians should be
perfect before we can ever examine the clearly immoral positions of others is
ridiculous. Obviously my objector isn't perfect, yet he seems to feel
completely within his rights to criticize me! So, that charge of hypocrisy cuts
both ways.
Would Jesus Be So Unloving as to Criticize Others?
But perhaps
it isn't using nonbelievers as a comparison that's the problem. Perhaps it's
unChrist-like to criticize the lost directly. I mean, they're lost, right? Why
should we expect them t do the right thing? But, I would turn this question around
and ask "Why should we expect anyone to repent unless we show them that they are
falling short of God's standards?"
Jesus did this all the time, too. When the
rich young ruler came to Jesus asking for eternal life,
Jesus criticized his love of wealth. "One thing you still lack. Sell all
that you have and distribute to the poor" was His command. When He was
face to face with those Pharisees whom He used as a comparison above, He used
the strongest language possible to t
ell
them of their evil. When He says that they are of their father the Devil
in
John 8:44, we may miss the impact of this; in that culture it is like
using curse words to them.
We see similar actions by
John the Baptist against Herod, Jesus telling the woman at the well that she
did not know the Good she claimed to worship, and the Apostle Paul telling the
Athenians that they
needed to repent. further, Paul continues to
warn the church that "neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor
adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor
drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God."
Of
course, in all things we must balance our criticism in love. The command for
defense is always "with gentleness and respect" and any Christian who doesn't
treat people as people first and foremost is sinning. But criticism of
wrongdoing is not unChrist-like. In fact, it is doing the very thing that Jesus
did.
Any parent will know that they tell their child "no" far more than they
affirm them. If you don't, the child becomes spoiled, thinking that anything
they wish is permissible. For me not to shout an alarm to the Christian who
may be damaged by a view popular in culture today would be as neglectful as
uncritical parent. It isn't hypocritical for me to call out to others when there's danger in society today. It's what Jesus did to protect His sheep.